Everyone wants only true love in life. True love seems to be more a fantasy than a possibility in human relationships. When a couple is planning to get married, they hope to find the so-called ‘true love’ in their relationship through marriage. But what happens to the so-called ‘true love’ is that it disappears in a few years and the married couple starts hating and hurting each other. Is it possible to find true love?

Many of us mistake feelings such as infatuation, friendship, admiration or sympathy for love. These are not true feelings of love. Our love for the other may start with these feelings and grow into true love as the relationship ripens.

When two people decide to get married they are in love ‘head over heals.’ They believe that they have found true love, but most of the times it is proven wrong. Can anyone define true love? It is difficult to define true love. We can say that true love is the embodiment of all your needs and desires in the other person. Love in itself encompasses a lot of other qualities like care, warmth, trust, security, loyalty, empathy, etc. True love is a total dedication of the partners towards each other.

Many may wonder if it is possible to experience true love in their life. Though it is possible, it is not easy. To have the experience of true Love you should be able to put forth your effort and along with you, your partner should put forth his efforts to develop true love between the two of you. When your efforts are sincere and you enjoy the positive effects, then we can say ‘yes,’ true love is possible.

The qualities needed to nurture true love are one’s own ability to love and the right attitudes with a proper approach. You go through a lot of emotional ups and downs in the process of finding your true love. You might have to make some tough decisions along the way to keep your true love alive.

True Love is unconditional love. This is possible only when you accept the other person for what he is in spite of his good and bad qualities.

Do you have to pay a high price to enjoy true love? You can enjoy true love if you have the willingness to sacrifice your individuality, your independence, take responsibility for the results of your actions under any situation, make adjustments at all times in all situations, be loyal and be patient at all times.

The attitudes that help in nurturing true love are making a constant effort at making the relationship work for both of you, give reasonable independence to your partner, respect your partner at all times and respect your partner’s pervious relationships.

Being too dominant, being suspicious, having improper and poor communication and reacting without knowing the truth are all qualities that negate true love.

Limitations or territories do not bind true Love. It is beyond religion, culture, region, race, physical beauty, color, age or social status. It is however, beneficial if you analyze these factors and make sure they do not affect the permanence of your relationship.